This means.... hmmmm...

i really like this song since i was in school, it's just that i don't really get the meaning of the song at that time... i came across this song while searching for video clips in youtube... learn the lyrics and figure them out bit by bit...

Cat's in The Cradle - Ugly Kid Joe


My child arrived just the other day,
He came to the world in the usual way.
But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay.
He learned to walk while I was away.
And he was talking 'fore I knew it, and as he grew,
He'd say, "I'm gonna be like you, dad.
You know I'm gonna be like you."

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then.
You know we'll have a good time then."

My son turned ten just the other day.
He said, "Thanks for the ball, dad, come on let's play.
Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today,
I got a lot to do." He said, "That's ok."
And he walked away, but his smile never dimmmed,
Said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah.
You know I'm gonna be like him."

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then.
You know we'll have a good time then."

Well, he came from college just the other day,
So much like a man I just had to say,
"Son, I'm proud of you. Can you sit for a while?"
He shook his head, and he said with a smile,
"What I'd really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys.
See you later. Can I have them please?"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then, dad.
You know we'll have a good time then."

I've long since retired and my son's moved away.
I called him up just the other day.
I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind."
He said, "I'd love to, dad, if I could find the time.
You see, my new job's a hassle, and the kid's got the flu,
But it's sure nice talking to you, dad.
It's been sure nice talking to you."
And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me,
He'd grown up just like me.
My boy was just like me.

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then, dad.
You know we'll have a good time then."

apa la salahnye...

kita manusia biasa, mmg tak lepas dari kesilapan.. kita belajar melalui kesilapan... kalau tak buat silap, kita takkan tau buat benda yg betul... sama macam baby yg baru lahir... tak tau apa2, belajar skit2, meniarap, merangkak, bertatih, berjalan, berlari dan sebagainye...

tanpa kesilapan kita takkan belajar... dgn kesilapan la kita belajar buat sesuatu... contohnye... semalam masak nasik satu cawan, letak 4 cawan air... nasi jadi lembik, skt je lagi nak naik taraf bubur... takkan hari ni nak masak nasik sukat air jadi 5 cawan??? setidaknye kita boleh fikir air patut kurangkan, jadi 3 atau 2 cawan... kalau letak 3, nasik lembik jugak... cuba lagi, letak dua... sampaila jadi nasik tu... betul tak??? tapi kita kena la admit yg...

"iye, aku tak pandai masak nasik, aku sedang belajar macamana nak masak nasik tak jadi bubur"

... bukan nye rugi pun mengaku salah...

tapi ada sesetengah org yg sgt cepat nampak salah org lain, tapi salah sendiri di sembunyikan... kenapa? nak tunjuk BAGUS... nak tunjuk PANDAI.. atau sbnrnye mengundang org mengutuk di belakang... mungkin sekarang org kutuk kat belakang, mana tau satu hari nanti org kutuk depan2... tak ke malu???

so, apa la salahnye kalau kita buat silap, kita mengaku kita silap... kita tak sorok yg kita dah buat silap.. kita tak sorok yg kita tak tau sebenarnye... jgn kalau org buat silap cepat je nak nampak... tapi bila org buat yg baik, yg betul tak nak bagi kredit... bukannya rugi pun nak puji org kan... kita buat org happy, kita pun akan rasa happy... kita buat org rasa sakit hati, rasa sedih, rasa down, apa kita dapat??? kosong... dapat caci maki lagi ada la kot...

dan apa la salahnye kalau kita tak tau kita bertanya... jgn jadi bodoh sombong, bongkak, lupa diri...

entry yg aku mintak izin dari blog owner utk aku guna...

a quote from: LIDAH

..i am here to have fun and make money to have fun

kalau aku tak kisah pasal career development salah ke?
tak kan? kan kan kan?
kalau dalam career aspiration aku tulis menternak lembu pun tak salah kan?
sesetengah orang, yelah, cita-cita dia nak jadi seseorang yang besar dalam company.
tapi kalau aku sekadar nak datang kerja untuk dapat gaji, untuk aku jalan-jalan satu dunia. tak salah kan?
aku bukan jenis lahap kerja.
orang selalu lupa, kita kerja untuk hidup. untuk memenuhi keperluan.
tapi sesetengah orang dah jadikan kerja sebagai hidup.
dan berharap orang-orang sebelah , tepi , kiri kanan pun jadi macam dia.
crap lah semua ini.
i am here to have fun. and make money to have fun.
bukan nya nak tension fikir tentang assessment dan rating.
masa tertekan dah lepas. tu semua waktu belajar dulu.
sekarang masa untuk bergembira dan lupakan semua formula.

yeay

*renung2kan dan selamat bekerja... heheheehe